Simple isn't simple

I don't know if it's just the way of the world in 2020, but it seems that there is a real challenge any time I try to simplify my life.

I'm not suggesting I've got it down with Marie Kondo's de-cluttering method, or have figured out how to remove those "on average" 60 to 90 apps to make use of the typically three to nine apps most smart phone owners use. I am, however, feeling my age as I try to get a better understanding that if everything is new and improved to make lives better, aren't there some cases in which it's acceptable to remain with old and traditional?  

For example, in a new world filled with 24/7/365 media choices in news and entertainment, a world that dices and splices audiences to identify those interested in televised cornhole tournaments vs. the latest wedding plans of reality stars, our home is evenly split on keeping it simple.

My son and husband are more critical and judicious with their time and selections: my spouse relying on the plot summary and critics' three+ star film reviews and my son's open loathing and avoidance for any creative endeavor that fails to provide real character development. I, on the other hand, like my daughter, will tend to give most films or television series a fighting chance even if there's so many to select from. Decidedly not simple.

As for our work and personal lives blurring as one, I am caught between conscience and common sense when trying to live simpler. Sure shutting off the cell phone and putting the laptop away are steps in the right direction. But what about that incessant hum of news articles and workshops reminding the way to better health is by being in the moment, listening to your breathing, taking care of both mind and body? Has anyone noticed the irony that this too, is hard work and anything but uncomplicated?

So what's the basic moral of this story? The quixotic purpose of this quest? Even if life is complex, intricate and demanding, stay focused. There's still a chance you can reduce the number of e-mails in the inbox, still an opportunity to master the computerized features on a 2019 car. It's never too late to simplify. Or at least to give it a try.

A contributing writer to the Herald since 2012, Lauren Lev is an East Meadow resident and a direct marketing/advertising executive who teaches advertising and marketing communications courses at the Fashion Institute of Technology/SUNY, LIU Post and SUNY Old Westbury.