Wednesday, January 22, 2025
The holiday season is a time for celebration, reflection and connection. It’s when we gather with loved ones, share festive meals and exchange thoughtful gifts. But as we move through the hustle and bustle of December, one thing deserves special attention: the well-being of those around us — family, friends, neighbors, and even our pets.
Check in on family members and friends. The holidays can evoke many emotions. For most it’s a time of joy, but for many it can bring loneliness or stress. We all carry our own burdens, and while social media may present the “perfect” holiday, many of us are struggling in ways that aren’t immediately visible. A simple phone call, a heartfelt text or an in-person visit can show someone they’re not alone.
Take a few minutes to reach out to those who may be isolated this season — whether they’re elderly parents, distant relatives or friends far away. Sometimes just knowing someone is thinking of you makes all the difference.
A conversation doesn’t need to be long or complicated; it’s the act of reaching out that counts. The holidays are about making memories, and often the small, unscripted moments create the most lasting bonds.
Mind your neighbors. In today’s world, neighbors can sometimes feel like strangers, especially in busy urban environments. But the holiday season is the perfect opportunity to reconnect with those who live nearby.
Whether it’s offering to shovel snow, leaving a homemade treat on their doorstep, or simply wishing them a warm holiday season, small gestures of kindness make a big difference.
If you know someone in your neighborhood who is elderly, has young children or may be struggling financially, consider going the extra mile. Offer to help with grocery shopping, or pitch in with holiday decorating. Even the simplest acts — a quick chat or a friendly wave — can foster a sense of community and combat the isolation many people feel at this time of year.
Don’t forget your pets. They bring joy and companionship, but the holiday season can be stressful for them, too. With all the extra activity, travel and noise, it’s important to monitor their well-being. If you’re hosting family gatherings or traveling, ensure that your pet has a quiet space to retreat to when things get overwhelming. And remember, many holiday treats aren’t safe for pets: Be mindful of foods that can be toxic, like chocolate, raisins and spices.
In addition to the pets we love, take a moment to think about the animals that need homes. This season, consider donating to a local animal shelter, or even adopting a pet if your circumstances allow. Shelters often see an increase in the number of animals that need homes during the winter months, and your support could make all the difference in the life of an animal in need.
Be mindful of deliveries. In the age of online shopping, deliveries are everywhere during the holiday season. Whether it’s gifts for loved ones or groceries for your holiday dinner, many of us rely on delivery services to keep things running smoothly. But the high volume of deliveries can create challenges for both customers and delivery workers.
Be mindful of packages arriving at your door, especially if you’re not home to receive them. Package theft is a common problem during the holidays, so consider having packages sent to a friend or neighbor, or to a secure pickup location. If you do receive deliveries, take a moment to thank the delivery workers, who often work long hours in all types of weather to get packages to us. A simple “thank you” can go a long way.
Spread the holiday spirit. Ultimately, the holidays are about kindness, connection and generosity. It’s easy to get caught up in the shopping, the planning and the parties, but the most meaningful moments are often simple acts of love and care. This season, take a breath and check in on those you care about — whether it’s a phone call to a relative, a small act of kindness for a neighbor or a moment of peace for your pet.
Let’s make this holiday season one of true connection and compassion. Wishing you all a warm, joyful and peaceful season.
Michael Giangregorio represents Nassau County’s 12th Legislative District.
