For lifelong Oceanside residents Judie and Vic Horowitz, New Year’s resolutions aren’t just January promises — they’re a way of life.
Celebrating their 67th year of marriage, Judie, 88, and Vic, 91, embody the spirit of renewal and determination. For the past 20 years, they have been dedicated volunteers at SIBSPlace, a nonprofit in Rockville Centre that supports healthy children in families coping with devastating illnesses such as cancer. SIBS stands for survivorship in brothers and sisters. The couples weekly visits to SIBSPlace have made them familiar and beloved faces among the families, staff and children there.
“At SIBSPlace, the kids don’t see differences — they see each other as family,” Judie said. “That’s the way the world should be, and it’s a privilege to be a part of that.”
At SIBSPlace, the couple helps to create an atmosphere of trust and support, by attending weekly sessions and special events, such as holiday parties, bringing warmth and stability to children who benefit from the structured, nurturing environment.
Another highlight of their week is visiting Rhame Avenue Elementary School in East Rockaway every Thursday with Daisy, the couple’s therapy dog. Each time they visit the school, Daisy brings smiles to children across two classes — one with non-verbal students who enjoy petting her and another where the older kids practice reading aloud to her and watch her hold a paintbrush with her mouth to paint pictures on a canvas.
“Daisy just has a way of breaking down barriers and making everyone feel at ease,” Vic said. “Seeing the kids light up when she does her tricks is the best part of our day.”
Despite their age, the Horowitzes are firmly committed to staying active, both physically and mentally. For Judie, the fitness journey became a necessity two years ago after she was diagnosed with osteopenia, a condition that weakens bones and could lead to osteoporosis.
Her husband, a longtime regular at the gym, encouraged her to join him more often, and together they began training at the Friedberg JCC in Oceanside under the guidance of Rocco Perotta, of Rockville Centre. They hit the gym several times a week, prioritizing strength training, cardiovascular health and overall wellness.
“Rocco makes it fun,” Judie said. “I never thought exercising could be enjoyable, but with him, it’s so varied that you’re never bored.”
Her determination was especially evident following a fall that left her with a fractured pelvis a few years ago. Even after completing rehabilitation at Mercy Hospital in Rockville Centre, when she returned home, she hesitated to climb the five slippery steps leading to her front door.
But Perotta and Vic were on hand to make sure she was safe. “Rocco came over to spot me,” she said. “Knowing he was there gave me the confidence to do it. He was my security blanket.”
And her husband has always been her steadfast supporter. A military veteran, a former boxer and all-around athlete, Vic’s energy and positivity have been a constant source of motivation for her.
“If you told me they just met and fell in love last week, I’d believe it,” Perotta said.
“They’re an inspiration to everyone who meets them,” he added. “They push each other in the most playful, loving way, and they’re always up for a new challenge.”
The couple’s workouts are anything but typical for their age group. Perotta puts them through a varied routine that includes weighted exercises, and even some suspension training.
“I don’t give them a ‘senior’ workout,” the trainer from Rockville Centre said.
Their fitness routine is not just about health, but it’s also about enabling their active volunteer lifestyle. Whether hosting children at SIBSPlace or attending volunteer events, their physical stamina and mental resilience have remained essential. As the Horowitzes continue to defy the limits of age, their message is clear.
“You’re never too old to stay active, learn new things, and give back to your community,” Judie said. “It’s all about keeping an open mind and a positive attitude.”
Perotta, who has become more than just a trainer to them, agreed wholeheartedly.
“They’re proof that you can find fulfillment at any stage of life,” he said. “I’m honored to be a part of their journey.”