Community mourns loss of Thomas Dipolito

The community of Freeport is mourning the loss of Thomas J. Dipolito, a remarkable individual who dedicated his life to serving others.

He died on July 10, at age 70.

Born in Brooklyn in 1952, Dipolito grew up in Baldwin, where he developed a deep love for the water. He was captivated by the soothing melodies of the waves and the mesmerizing beauty of the ocean. 

He cherished his immediate family, especially his wife, Jeanne, whom he met at age 15. Their love story began in Baldwin and culminated in a joyous union on May 10, 1975. Together they moved and built a life and family in Freeport, a town that held a special place in his heart.

Dipolito followed in his father’s footsteps and joined his business, Trius Electric, an electrical contracting company. When his father died in 1992, Dipolito took over and carried on the legacy with pride and dedication. Trius Electric became synonymous with quality electrical services in Freeport and beyond, a testament to his exceptional skills as an electrician and businessman. 

Beyond his professional accomplishments, Dipolito was deeply committed to his community. He actively participated in the Freeport Chamber of Commerce, joining in 2009 and serving as treasurer up until his death, ensuring the financial aspects of the chamber were well managed. He received the distinguished honor of Businessman of the Year in 2015. He was a strong and vocal supporter of various local initiatives, including the Thank-A-Cop program and youth sports teams, always ready to donate his time, materials and expertise.

“He was like everybody’s guy,” his daughter Julie Heinlein said. “He was whatever you needed him to be. He was your dad, he was your friend, he was your person forever for anybody and everybody, and of course a mentor.”

Chamber president Ben Jackson shared heartfelt memories and reflections on the late Dipolito, shedding light on his exceptional character and profound impact on the community.

Having been close friends with Dipolito for many years, Jackson witnessed firsthand his unwavering dedication to the chamber. Dipolito’s generosity knew no bounds, whether it was contributing his time, financial support, or any other assistance the chamber required. 

His easygoing nature and willingness to help made him an absolute pleasure to work with, making even the most challenging tasks seem effortless. Jackson fondly recalled their Friday night dinners, cherishing the moments they spent together and the camaraderie they shared.

“I can’t remember anybody saying a bad word about Tommy,” Jackson said. “He was a great guy, he would pick up the phone no matter what, he was always there on the spot.” 

His selflessness extended far beyond the chamber, as he was always willing to donate to charitable causes, particularly those benefiting veterans. He was consistently the first to step up and contribute, providing unwavering support to various initiatives.

Jackson recalled his generosity and recalled moments when his contributions made a significant difference in the chamber’s endeavors, such as helping with a major corporate structure change and providing financial assistance during a shortfall for fireworks.

“He was always there for everything he was always chipping in, whether it be time or money, or whatever it might be,” Jackson said. “He was extremely generous. In working with him, I saw that he was a complete gentleman.” 

One of Dipolito’s greatest passions was boating as he found solace and joy on the water, a love he cultivated from a young age while growing up on the South Shore. The family spent countless vacations and weekends aboard their cherished boat, aptly named “My Outlet Two.” 

Dipolito’s love, knowledge and passion for boating were passed down to his son, Tommy Jr., who now carries on the family tradition.

“My brother Tommy Jr., he’s now an avid boater and fisherman because of my dad of course,” Heinlein said. 

As a mentor, Dipolito touched the lives of many. His daughter Julie described him as someone who could be relied upon for guidance and support. His work ethic, strength, and determination served as an inspiration to his children and those who knew him. He instilled in them a sense of independence and perseverance, leaving a mark on their lives.

Freeport lost a remarkable individual who left an indelible impact on the community.

Dipolito’s legacy of hard work, compassion, and love for his family will continue to inspire and uplift those who were fortunate enough to know him.

Dipolito is survived by his wife, Jeanne, his children, Julie Heinlein, Thomas Jr., and Anthony, and his grandchildren, Corey, Anna and Samarah. He is also survived by his two brothers, one sister and his four nephews and niece.