I once saw a bumper sticker that sums up your dilemma: "The more people I meet, the more I like my dog." Some people just do not get it, and never will. Others need to have an issue brought to their attention gently, while others need stronger enforcement. My impression is that you are well meaning and want a lovely view to enjoy. Your neighbor, like many, is insensitive to the fact that they share this place and need to respect your view.Considering your neighbor's sensitivity level, you have choices. Go over and introduce yourself. If you're good at evaluating personalities, you can then decide if the person is oblivious, unaware, shy, reclusive, or just plain mean. Then you can decide whether to erect a fence and plant shrubs, confront the neighbor, or call the authorities (the health department or building department). Keep in mind that there is only so much the authorities can or will do. I've seen many instances in which inconsiderate neighbors go for years with junk piles in their yard, unhindered by authorities. One property, across from a school, is regularly stocked with new junk. The front, side and rear yards, as well as the inside of the house, are loaded with scrap metal, wood, roofing shingles, brick piles, car parts and other stuff. The junk has been there for 20 years. Thirty feet away, children play on a playground.The building and health codes have provisions for nuisances, but they're only enforceable when you file a complaint. Remember that if you complain repeatedly, you may not be taken seriously. Be careful how you complain. Some authorities are liable to take a certain tone or phrase personally, label you an offensive crank and not follow through as quickly, if at all. In other instances, to be fair, I've seen swift responses and results such as the cleanup and beautification of business districts. Under the circumstances, I recommend planting a hedge in front of a 6-foot-tall fence. Complement the arrangement with a trellis and a floral shaped dartboard with your neighbor's picture on it. Not only do good fences make good neighbors, but bad neighbors make for good fences. Good luck!Readers are encouraged to send questions to: HERALD Homes, 379 Central Avenue, P.O. Box 220, Lawrence, N.Y. 11559-0220Attn: Monte Leeper, architect.
