By Howard Goldstein
When the world seemed to come crashing down in flames on that day, Gary, a member of the New York City Fire Department, Engine 40, selflessly attempted to rescue his fellow citizens. Tragically, Gary lost his life in the collapse of the Towers, but his memory lives on in all people whom aspire to true courage and heroism.
With remembrance in mind, Gail, Gary's ex-wife who was reuniting with her husband before Sept. 11, asked the Town of Hempstead to dedicate a street in his name.
Supervisor Richard Guardino, Councilwoman Angelina Cullin, Town Clerk Kathleen Murray and Receiver of Taxes Don Clavin Jr. joined the commemoration.
Gary was a Bellmore resident for 35 years and had served with Manhattan's Engine 40 for 25 years, his entire career with the city fire department.
Engine 40 shares a firehouse with Ladder 35, and the two units combined sent 13 members to the World Trade Center. Only one man survived. Engine 40 sent five men, none of whom returned. At the dedication, many firefighters turned out to pay last respects to Gary.
Sept. 11, 2002 was not the first time Gary was called to the World Trade Center after a terrorist attack. When terrorists bombed the Trade Center in 1993, Gary rushed to the scene and was honored by Mayor Rudy Giuliani for his efforts then.
"Bruce Gary never sought to be a hero," noted Cullin. "However, like so many others, he selected a career as a firefighter because he wished to help others."
Bellmore Little League also named a ballpark "The Bruce Gary Memorial Field of Heroes." Gary was vice president of that organization for 12 years.
"We wanted something to keep his spirit alive," said Gail.
"It's hard to talk about it even now. Some day his grandchildren will pass that street and be able to say, 'That was grandpa'," she said.
Bruce is also survived by his mother, Alice; his siblings Donna and Chris; and his children Jessica, Ricky and Tommy.
Guardino concluded by saying how honored he was to be part of the rededication, and commenting on the importance of the event.
"I truly believe that by remembering and celebrating the lives of heroes like Bruce, we weave grief, pain and sorrow into strength, courage and connection," he said.
