By: Jerry Burke
Anthony Calia, 32, died last week, having spending eight days on life support after suffering major injuries in a car crash on Easter Sunday.
The owner and proprietor of Carmela's Pizzeria and Restaurant, the family business founded by his parents, Bart and Carmela, was remembered by friends and family as the linchpin in everyone's life. "He was a true gentleman who lived life with zest," commented Lisante, who said Calia's mass. "If you had a friend in Anthony, you had a friend for life."
Testimonials by his teachers at John Street School and H. Frank Carey High School described his unlimited potential, his caring heart, his interests -- ranging from soccer and wrestling to serving as his class treasurer and cars -- as well as his decision to stay with the family business after graduating at the top of his class at Hofstra University. "It was what he wanted to do," said Lisante. "He could have done anything in the world, but this is what he wanted."
Calia's sister Joanne read the inspirational poem, "When Tomorrow Starts Without Me," in honor of her beloved big brother. "But when tomorrow starts without me, please try to understand, that an angel came and called my name; and took me by the hand; and said my place was ready; in heaven far above; and that I would have to leave behind; all those I dearly love."
In addition to his parents and sister, Calia leaves behind his wife, Vincenza, his parents-in-law, Salvatore and Concetta DiMaggio, as well as friends too numerous to list.
Arrangements were made by the Franklin Square Funeral Home, and Calia was entombed at St. John's Cemetery. His family has asked that in lieu of flowers, monetary donations be made to the newly created Anthony Calia Scholarship Foundation, 910 Hempstead Turnpike, Franklin Square, NY 11010.
