By MIKE CAPUTO
Standing beside the Nassau County Firefighter 9/11 Memorial on the morning of Sept. 11, Priest's eyes briefly fixated on the cars cutting through Eisenhower Park, likely headed for work or school.
"If any one of these people in these cars hadn't come by and hadn't seen this going on, would they remember that today is 9/11?" he says. "We are forgetting already."
Instead of soliciting a response, he reasoned with himself.
"I don't know, I think it is just the way life is," said Priest, who was EMFD's second assistant chief on 9/11.
Like many of the fellow firefighters on hand, Priest had lost close friends and colleagues on that fateful day seven years ago.
One of those firefighters that shared similar sentiments with Priest was Peter Schmalerberger. Schmalerberger is an honorary chief and longtime member of the Bellmore Fire Department, which lost two of its own - Adam Rand and Kevin Prior - on 9/11.
"Yesterday, when I was working on the monument, people stopped to say 'What is going on?" he said. "Here it is, seven years later: the patriotism has left us and the enthusiasm has left us I think."
But for those who were there, or saw their loved ones and colleagues storm toward the burning towers, the memory remains.
"We don't forget," Schmalerberger said, "We will never forget."
The ceremony was the second annual tribute sponsored by the Nassau County Fire Commission.
Lou Milone, immediate past chairman of the county fire commission and director of the firefighter memorial endowment, said he was unsure what to expect at this year's ceremony. When the memorial opened in 2007, hundreds attended, including family members representing all of the deceased honorees.
A handful of family members showed up this time. Beforehand, most were catching up and reflecting on the events of 9/11.
Mark Ulsheimer, a member of the Lynbrook Fire Department, was a student at the time of the attacks and expressed remorse not only for the fallen, but for not being there.
"I wish I was there," he said. "You wish you could be there to help, wish you could be there and give a hand."
Ulsheimer lent an important hand four years later, when he spent two weeks as an EMT in New Orleans during the aftermath of Hurricane Katrina.
For some, like Jim Minor, a longtime member of Franklin Square-Munson Fire Department, there was nothing to say.
"It was so bad, you can't express it in words," said Minor, whose was on hand to honor Tom Hetzler, a Franklin Square firefighter who died on 9/11.
Milone, who is also a member of the Rockville Centre Fire Department, happened to be attending to his son at a hospital in Albany. He quickly followed the governor's caravan down the New York State Thruway and witnessed an image that sticks in his mind.
"I remember crossing the Verrazano bridge and seeing the devastation and the smoke," he said.
Like Milone, most firefighters immediately responded to the call without hesitation, wherever they were at the time. That can be hard to forget.
"The thing I remember is firemen didn't have to be asked come to the firehouse," Priest said. "They knew that was where they were supposed to be and they just started showing up. We never set off the radio saying 'You better get here in case something happens.'"
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Photos by Scott Brinton/Herald
