By: Linda Sepadin
You are beautiful, talented, brilliant, so loving, so good, strong and modest. You know me better than I know myself. You are so loving and good to me and you have made me a stronger person."We give each other caring advice, guiding each other and leaving room for each other to grow individually. We talk about many and any topics; we've cried together and we laugh and are perpetually silly with one another. We respect and sometimes even embrace each other's differences but our core values and many interests we have in common have truly made us soul mates."The past three and a half years with you have been the happiest and most fulfilling of my life. You are the love of my life and my best friend. It just feels so right to be starting our lives together as husband and wife. I love you and I promise to give myself to you wholeheartedly."
Sara's Vows: "To My Danny. I love you, I adore you, I delight in you and all that you are. I have truly found myself with you, found my heart, found my soul, and my spirit. With you, I am free to let go, free to uncover the well of laughter and lightness within myself. You make me stronger; you make me better; you make me whole."My heart is yours, my love, and my devotion to you has no bounds. I cannot wait to begin this next phase of life with you, to continue this remarkable journey we have made together. And as we embark, hand in hand, I promise to love you unconditionally; to support you in all that you do; to care for you deeply and honestly; to wade through the challenges with you by my side; to delight in the joys with your hand in mine; to stand by you; to walk with you; to lean on you; and to give myself to you wholeheartedly."If your eyes are not moist and your nerves are not tingling, you must immediately make an appointment with your spiritual adviser. Your romance level is dangerously low. Your delight in life, your enchantment with love needs to be reawakened. Hopefully though, Danny and Sara's love for each other has touched you. Perhaps you are reminded of the passion you feel for a special someone in your life. Or you feel warmer toward the universe. Or maybe their devotion simply diverted, distracted, or helped you through a painful day. Just let in whatever goodness radiates from their love. For to bear witness to another's love is an affirmation of your own.
Linda Sapadin, Ph.D. is a psychologist in private practice and the proud mother of the groom. She invites you to visit her website at www.psych-wisdom.com Copyright © 2004
